Abantu Bicisha bugufi Barafasha cyane?
Abantu Bicisha bugufi Barafasha cyane?
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Abantu bavuga ko bicisha bugufi birashoboka cyane kuruta abantu bishimira gutanga umwanya wo gufasha umuntu ubikeneye, nkuko abashakashatsi babitangaza.

Mu bushakashatsi bwatangajwe ku rubuga rwa interineti mu kinyamakuru cya Positive Psychology, abashakashatsi bo muri kaminuza ya Baylor bavuze ko ibyo babonye bitangaje kuko mu myaka igera kuri 30, ubushakashatsi buke bwerekanye ingaruka zose z’imiterere ihinduka mu gufasha imyitwarire, nk'uko byatangajwe ku wa mbere.

Icyemezo cyo gufasha umuntu ubikeneye giterwa no guhuza ibintu byigihe gito cyangwa ibihe nkigihe cyumuvuduko wigihe, umubare wabantu bahari, ibyiyumvo byigihe gito cyangwa akababaro k'umuntu nkuko byatangajwe na Wade Rowatt, umwanditsi wubushakashatsi akaba numwarimu wungirije wa psychologiya na neuroscience kuri Kaminuza ya Baylor.

Rowatt ati: "Nubwo hari ibintu byinshi bigira uruhare mu kumenya niba abantu bazitanga kugira ngo bafashe bagenzi babo bakeneye ubufasha, bigaragara ko abantu bicisha bugufi, ugereranije, bafasha kurusha abantu bishyira hejuru cyangwa abirasi."

Abashakashatsi bakoze ubushakashatsi butatu bwerekanaga ko kwicisha bugufi byahanuye ubufasha.

Mu bushakashatsi bumwe, abitabiriye amahugurwa bavuze ko bicishije bugufi na bo bakunze kuvuga ko bafashijwe, kandi kubera ko abantu muri rusange basuzugura cyangwa bakabya kwicisha bugufi kugira ngo batange ibitekerezo bifuza, ubushakashatsi bwakoresheje urugero ruto rwo kwicisha bugufi.

Mu bundi bushakashatsi, abanyeshuri bumvise amajwi y’umunyeshuri mugenzi we wakomeretse ukuguru kandi adashobora kujya mu ishuri buri gihe, hanyuma babazwa amasaha angahe mu cyumweru gitaha bazemera guhura n’umunyeshuri wakomeretse kugira ngo batange ubufasha. Na none kandi, abanyeshuri bafite kwicisha bugufi birashoboka cyane ko batanga umwanya munini wo gufasha umunyeshuri wakomeretse.

Mu bushakashatsi buheruka abashakashatsi basuzumye ingamba zidasobanutse kandi ziyitirira raporo yo kwicisha bugufi. Abanyeshuri basabwe kumenya byihuse imico ishoboka kuri bo. Amagambo ajyanye no kwicisha bugufi yariyoroshe, yiyoroshya, yihanganirana, hasi, yubaha kandi afunguye ibitekerezo. Amagambo ajyanye nubwibone yari ubwibone, kutiyubaha, kwikunda no kwiyemera. Abanyeshuri bavuze ko bicishije bugufi batanze igihe kinini cyo gufasha umunyeshuri ukeneye, cyane cyane igihe igitutu cyo gufasha cyari gito.

Rowatt ati: "Ibyo twabonye hano ni uko imico idahwitse yo kwicisha bugufi itanga ubufasha." "Intambwe y'ingenzi izakurikiraho ni ukumenya niba kwicisha bugufi bishobora gutsimbatazwa kandi niba kwicisha bugufi ari ingirakamaro mu bindi bice, nk'iterambere ry'ubumenyi n'ubuvuzi cyangwa iterambere ry'ubuyobozi."

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